Children are more exposed than ever to a spectrum of views on such important topics as climate change, racism, mental health, and war. While sensitive topics like these are difficult to talk about, students benefit from discussions guided by well-prepared teachers.  

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Some topics are more sensitive than others

Issues that are discussed openly in one classroom may be treated with more caution in another. How sensitive such topics are may depend on a country’s history, the societal context, cultural attitudes, who is in the room, and the students’ ages.

In one study in the Netherlands, secondary school teachers found it more difficult to discuss cultural or racial issues that directly affected students’ personal lives, especially when classmates held opposing views. The teachers noted that classrooms with students who were bicultural or from lower socioeconomic backgrounds were often more ideologically diverse, making such conversations even more challenging. Interestingly, students who felt personally affected by an issue tended to participate more actively. This led to more emotionally charged and complex discussions that were more difficult for teachers to manage. However, the very fact that students responded emotionally underscored the importance of engaging in these discussions.

Students benefit from learning about sensitive topics

Given the emotional and social complexities of discussing sensitive topics, it’s understandable that teachers may hesitate to bring up these subjects. Yet engaging young people in sensitive discussions within a safe and supportive learning environment can strengthen their cognitive reasoning and their ability to see the world from diverse perspectives.

These conversations can help students learn to engage constructively with opposing viewpoints. They can spark curiosity and motivate students to explore issues more thoroughly, expanding their knowledge and deepening their understanding of complex topics. When managed thoughtfully, such discussions can also build a stronger sense of classroom community. By promoting open-minded, empathetic listening, teachers help students gain a better understanding of others’ experiences.

“It is important to learn and practice critical thinking and civic engagement from a young age.”

It is important to learn and practice critical thinking and civic engagement from a young age. In one study, students who had been taught about global warming were more likely to become advocates and social activists, as they understood the science behind the issue. Engaging with these topics not only raises students’ awareness of current issues but also enables them to see themselves as part of the solution and helps them grow into socially responsible adults.

Building safe spaces for tough conversations

Teachers should seek to create safe, inclusive, and supportive classroom environments in which students are encouraged to speak up without fear of judgement. This requires building strong relationships with students, establishing clear norms for respectful interactions, and organising open, structured, and well-facilitated discussions.

“Teachers should seek to create safe, inclusive, and supportive classroom environments.”

These elements can mean the difference between a fruitful discussion and a polarising exchange that deepens division within the classroom. Teachers who feel confident in their ability to guide such conversations and know that they have the support of their schools are more likely to be effective. Professional development can equip teachers with practical strategies for managing sensitive discussions, boost their confidence, and enhance their facilitation skills so that students can benefit from these conversations.

As young people navigate an increasingly complex world, difficult conversations in the classroom can be meaningful learning experiences that foster empathy, critical thinking, and civic engagement. Schools need to ensure that teachers feel equipped to lead these discussions, and that students feel safe to take part in them.